Singles Coaching
Stop Treating Dating
Like a Guessing Game.
Built for high performers. Real results.
Is This You
High Performers Are Often the Last Ones
to Figure This Out.
If any of this sounds familiar, you're in good company.
- You go on dates but nothing leads anywhere real
- You keep meeting the same type, just in different packaging
- You've done the personal development work and still hit the same walls
- You want to move things forward with confidence but aren't sure how
- You're ready to approach this the way you approach everything else worth building
The Approach
Structured. Science-Backed.
Built for How You Think.
Science-backed frameworks and real tools, grounded in neuroscience and lived experience.
Action-Oriented
Every session builds toward a concrete tool you can use immediately. You leave knowing exactly what to do next, not just things to reflect on.
Scripts & Real Tools
What to say on a first date. How to handle the "what are we" conversation. How to pace the relationship and deepen connection. Practical tools for every stage.
Both Perspectives
Melissa's husband Akshay, Marine veteran and peak performance coach, joins select sessions to bring the male perspective.
The Method
The 8S System
The framework behind the coaching. Date with a system, not by luck.
The Options
Private or Group.
Both Deliver.
Private 1:1 for a fully personalized approach with direct access to Melissa. Group coaching for structure, community, and real-time guidance.
Group Coaching
The 8-Week Cohort
A structured weekly program in a small, high-quality cohort. Real-time guidance, proven frameworks, and a community of people doing the work alongside you.
- Weekly live group coaching calls for real-time guidance, not guesswork
- Proven frameworks to help you find your person faster
- Scripts, nonverbal cues, and proven strategies to get higher-quality dates and handle hard conversations with confidence
- Community with a dedicated WhatsApp group to connect, ask questions, and get in-the-moment support
- Male and female perspective so you're not missing what actually matters, with Akshay joining select sessions
- Max 15 people per cohort, small enough for real attention
- Session recordings included, lifetime access
- Next cohort starts Spring 2027, registration open now and fills before it's announced publicly
Best for: structure, community, and weekly accountability
Private Coaching
1:1 Coaching
Everything in the group program, built entirely around you. Two private sessions a month, direct access to Melissa between calls, and a strategy tailored to your specific patterns and goals.
- Two private 60-minute sessions a month, built entirely around your dating life and goals
- A coach in your pocket: text and voice-note Melissa between sessions for real-time support, so you get help the moment it comes up, not a week later
- Learn to say what you actually mean in a way that lands, on dates and in the conversations that matter most
- Get control of the stories running in your head so you stop getting in your own way and show up grounded
- Deep work on the patterns quietly sabotaging your dating life, with a clear plan to break them
- Full access to all the lessons and modules from the group program, plus custom scripts and tools personalized to your exact situations
- A 3-month program, then the option to continue month-to-month
- Bonus: Akshay, a mental performance coach and polar explorer, joins as needed for extra support
Best for: fully private, personalized support with direct access between sessions
Limited spots available.
Client Results
The Frameworks Work.
Here's the Proof.
Testimonials shared with client permission. Names and identifying details abbreviated for privacy.
Get Started
Ready to Work
with Melissa?
Fill out the short form and Melissa will be in touch within 48 hours to schedule a call, answer your questions, and find the right fit.
- 1Submit the formTakes about 10 minutes. The more specific you are, the better the conversation.
- 2Hear back within 48 hoursMelissa will reach out to schedule a short call to see if you're a good fit.
- 3Get startedIf it's the right fit, you'll have everything you need before the next cohort opens.
Apply for Coaching
Group or 1:1. Fill out the form below to tell Melissa more about your goals. If it's a good fit, she'll reach out to schedule a short connection call.
Application Received.
Melissa will be in touch within 48 hours to schedule a call. Keep an eye on your inbox.
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Your information is 100% confidential and will never be shared.
FAQ
Common
Questions.
Questions about both the group program and 1:1 coaching, answered directly.
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About Your Coach
Melissa Has Done
This Work Herself.
After 100+ first dates and years of doing the internal work (overcoming anxious attachment and people-pleasing), Melissa built the framework that changed how she showed up entirely. She met her now-husband Akshay (Marine veteran, polar explorer, and peak performance coach) and was engaged within two months. When you do the inner work and show up differently, the right person has a way of finding you.
Her approach is direct and action-oriented. Melissa quickly identifies the patterns showing up in your dating life and gives you the exact tools, scripts, and frameworks to shift them. Akshay joins select sessions to bring the male perspective.
Melissa's Full StoryStop Leaving
Love to Chance.
The next cohort is forming now. Spots fill before the program is announced publicly.